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All the Bullshits You Hear About Stress Management

 Instant stress management to reduce stress

Probably we all have the habit to learn things the hard way. We don’t care for others’ advice as long as we don’t face problems personally.

And I also believe, none can teach you anything unless you open up your mind.

Today I want to share with you three life-hacks to manage stress and work schedule effectively.

Disclaimer: Those techniques work for me though, you can give them a try!

And don’t try ‘MY TECHNIQUES’ unless you can relate those ‘WITH YOUR LIFE.’

First of all, face it! Stress and depression are real. You can’t expect a stress-free career unless you decide to do nothing in your life. On the other way, if you find your work stressful, probably you are doing something meaningful in your career.

However, we can tactfully play it cool to turn our stress into positive energy if we have our very own stress management techniques. Before concluding the solutions, I want to share my personal notion about ‘So-called-stress-management-hacks’ bullshits that don’t work for me.

1. Talk to someone: As an introvert, it is quite difficult to reduce stress from a human’s company.

2. Get more peaceful sleep: If I could sleep peacefully, I wouldn’t be stressed out in the first place!

3. Manage your time: You will come across this vague advice several times in your life. I think, no one can teach you time management unless you are self-educated in this skill.

4. Try mindfulness: Well, I am not so sure about that. But mindfulness techniques (Like free your mind from any negative thoughts/ focus on your surroundings) require a certain amount of time investment and practice – which can’t be considered as an instant stress management solution.

5. Eat healthy, exercise: Well, those qualities are incorporated with your lifestyle. Frankly speaking, a healthy lifestyle can help you to get your shits together, but again, this is not instant relief.

If you are still with me, and you can relate to ‘Those stress management ninja techniques don’t work for you either,’ let me share three instant stress relief techniques that you can try out!

1. Write Down Your Tasks

Write it down. Write it down with a color pen. Write on sticky notes. Write on a whiteboard – Wherever or Whatever you want to – just write it down!

 Jot down whatever is in your mind before getting things done

Recording your tasks help to visualize the actual situation which further helps designing possible solutions for the problems.

Versed Blogger’s Tips: If you are good at drawing or feel like you should sketch, try to draw or doodle your problems. Sketching out helps to relieve stress.

2. Get a Small Work Done ASAP

Imagine you are working with a term paper or trying to make a business presentation for your next weekly meeting. Try to write down the introduction or make the first slide as soon as possible – no matter how the quality or quantity has been. It’s always good to have a quick start to your work to get things done.

Get the first step done as soon as possible

Versed Blogger’s Tips: I would highly recommend the amazing book ‘The 5 Second Rule' by Mel Robbins. This book has encouraged me to initiate any task without putting so many thoughts wondering, ‘How can I start working, I have a bunch-load of works to do!’

3. Take a Deep Breath

Well, sorry to disappoint you with the cliché, but it really works! The problem is, we never try this out precisely as it should be. Whenever you are stressed out – just follow the steps:

Close your eyes> Take a deep breath for 10 seconds> Exhale your lung air for another ten seconds> Remember, nothing matters!

       Take a deep breath to exhale your stress

Versed Blogger’s Tips: The earth will rotate for the exact 1000 miles per hour if you fail to complete the task on the deadline! (IYKWIM)

Be yourself, my friend! Be a free soul. As a wise old man once said:

”When you know nothing matters, the universe is yours. And I’ve never met a universe that was into it. The universe is basically an animal, it grazes on the ordinary.”

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