Fighting against Personal Instincts is the Most Difficult Challenge

Being personally satisfied demands soul searching

Many a time we fight with ourselves thinking that we shall start our own businesses.

Perhaps you wake up early in the morning cursing your job. You think a free profession without any boss would be much better.

I have personally been under both experiences. Once employed by a financial institution, I woke up early in the morning cursing my job and employer. Every day I thought about leaving the job and starting a business. I believed I am enslaved by my employers.

You are confining your thoughts

I got to understand that I was not enslaved by my job. My employers didn’t cause any trouble. Rather, I was enslaved by my own instincts.

I was subjugated by the unquenchable thirst for success. My desire for happiness further made me miserable.

I believe, my personal weakness was and always has been the demand for the end result. I have always focused on reaping the fruit rather than planting and nourishing a tree.

A happy and satisfied person has won against her personal instincts and interdicted her desires from blurring the state of mind.

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